Look at this little "chipmunk," Anna Janaro, who just turned two months old the other day. Chubby cheeks and dimples too! And, of course, it's clear from the second picture that she loves her big sister Maria.😊
💕 Yay, grandchildren!!🙂
An ordinary man engages the circumstances of daily life, seeking to draw closer to the Mystery who gives meaning to everything.
Look at this little "chipmunk," Anna Janaro, who just turned two months old the other day. Chubby cheeks and dimples too! And, of course, it's clear from the second picture that she loves her big sister Maria.😊
💕 Yay, grandchildren!!🙂
"Practical activity will always be insufficient, unless it visibly expresses a love for man, a love nourished by an encounter with Christ. My deep personal sharing in the needs and sufferings of others [thus] becomes a sharing of my very self with them: if my gift is not to prove a source of humiliation, I must give to others not only something that is my own, but my very self; I must be personally present in my gift. This proper way of serving others also leads to humility. The one who serves does not consider himself superior to the one served, however miserable his situation at the moment may be. Christ took the lowest place in the world—the Cross—and by this radical humility he redeemed us and constantly comes to our aid."
This is a difficult, indeed a heroic disposition of our selves, rooted in the new life we receive through Christ in the Holy Spirit. It’s not a partial life that we can “set aside” when we engage in politics. Human political struggles in this world are inevitably “bent” toward violence because they absolutize the success of a political program even if it requires the degradation of human persons. In defending the common good against widespread injustice, we may sometimes conclude that it is necessary to work temporarily in coalition with political movements that are obscure or that fail in some ways to recognize the full measure of human dignity and instead prioritize the success of their faction. But in such circumstances, we must always be clear about who we are, and not allow our social presence to be reduced by the “logic” or the strategic machinations of any faction. We must resist being “caught up” in the enthusiasm of political idolatries of any kind. We must distinguish ourselves, we must make no compromises with violence, we must always be known by our love.
This in no way diminishes our active struggle, opposition, and resistance to the evils we fight against against in society, and our determination to build up structures that protect human life and human dignity. In today’s world there are abundant social injustices and evils that we cannot ignore. The Catholic Bishops of the United States, with good reason, draw our attention to the sin of abortion in our society. Objectively speaking, the violence of abortion is directed against the most invisible and defenseless of human persons, and it brings division to one of the most vulnerable and essential of human relationships: the relationship between mother and child.
This is why Pope Francis, speaking in particular about the dignity of unborn human persons, insists that "a human being is always sacred and inviolable, in any situation and at every stage of development. Human beings are ends in themselves and never a means of resolving other problems. Once this conviction disappears, so do solid and lasting foundations for the defense of human rights, which would always be subject to the passing whims of the powers that be" (Pope Francis).When I was very young I used to wonder, “Why do ‘old people’ all move to Florida after they retire?” Seriously, this was (is?) a phenomenon well-known in the immigrant communities of New York City, where I was born and my parents were born. It seemed like whole neighborhoods of Italians and Jews just transplanted themselves from the Bronx to Fort Lauderdale when people reached a certain age. They brought with them bakeries and restaurants, delis (kosher, of course, with those inimitable all-beef frankfurters), the “New Yawwk” accent, fresh Parmesan cheese (long before it became a popular fad), bagels and lox, and even the Yankees, who did Spring Training in Fort Lauderdale. Why did they all go to South Florida?
Why? Very simple explanation, really. It stays warm in the winter. The snow and frigid temperatures we had this past week were really hard on arthritic bodily joints, hard on the immune system, hard on the whole structure of anyone who has logged up lots of “personal high mileage.”
Florida, though… too humid in the summer. Arizona has dry heat, which is easier on the body. Lots of retirees have been heading to Arizona in more recent generations. There's plenty of inexpensive real estate, the cost-of-living is reasonable, the environment is beautiful, and you've got the freakin' Grand Canyon. I'm sure there are many interesting activities. As the southwest has grown as a retirement hub, baseball teams have built up the “Cactus League” for Spring Training. The thing about Arizona, of course, is that it is an actual DESERT. You really can fry eggs on the roof of your car in the summer. It’s no surprise if the temperature tops 110 degrees, which is just too hot even if there’s no humidity. And [other than the already-noted Grand Canyon] it seems awfully far away from… everything (at least, if you’re an East Coast person). Where’s the beach?
Virginia is not far-enough South to stay warm all year round, but we usually have fairly mild winters. Usually…
Not this year, however. This past week, the cold was embellished by snow: only a few inches, but it hasn’t gotten warm enough to melt.
January isn’t going to get any better as we grow older. Hmm…Caribbean Islands are looking really good right now. But who am I kidding? I’m not going to leave this beautiful Valley!
Sun. Snow. Freezing Cold. Shenandoah Valley, January 2024.
As the USA honors the birthday of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., we would do well to remember that “non-violence” is as necessary today as ever. In the face of much opposition, tension, and misunderstanding, Dr. King and the African-Americans of the southern United States generated an effective non-violent social movement for racial equality and justice that had a real historical impact, not only in the USA (where much yet remains to be done), but throughout the world. Political practices of nonviolent direct action—boycotts, marches, protests, sit-ins, and suchlike—have become almost “commonplace” in the world of recent history. Perhaps most memorably, the tenaciousness and perseverance of the Polish labor movement Solidarity—inspired in part by Dr. King’s nonviolent witness—began the process that led to the fall of Communism in Central and Eastern Europe in the 1980s.
Various types of popular-protest-driven “peaceful revolutions” have toppled or modified corrupt dictatorial regimes all over the world. Some have been unsuccessful or have been co-opted by extremist groups. Others (e.g. Ukraine’s Euromaidan movement in 2014) have had success, but have been followed by military invasion by powers that claimed to be threatened by them. From the Philippines to South Africa to Central America to China and Hong Kong, movements of nonviolent inspiration have caught the attention of the world. External “results” might appear to be small, imperiled, or overwhelmed by new crises (or—as in the cases of Tiananmen Square in Beijing in 1989 and Hong Kong’s 2014-2019 “Umbrella Revolution”—plowed under entirely by the institutionalized violence of a relentless bureaucratic PartyState).
Nevertheless, under God’s loving providence that works on all levels of human history, every genuinely upright action aimed at the recognition of the dignity of the human person is destined to bear fruit for the good. The human aspiration that “hunger[s] and thirst[s] after justice” (Matthew 5:6) is a promise written on the human heart that begs for fulfillment, and that is filled to overflowing by God Himself through the death and resurrection of Jesus. But the victory of Christ is present already in this world, and His mercy is glorified when we permit it to give shape to our individual and social lives as we journey toward our final destiny.
The term “non-violence” itself is hard to define precisely, and I remain convinced that it is compatible with the necessary use of “physical force” in self-defense (which bares no hatred for the aggressor but aims to protect human dignity and human persons who have been entrusted to our care). Using physical (military) force to stop an aggressor involves grave risks, but communities and nations may have no other reasonable course of action in circumstances in which they are subjected to ruthless invasion. Nevertheless, here especially a nonviolent mentality is crucial not only for limiting to a minimum the dangers and destructiveness of military escalation, but also for governing the interior disposition that remains at the heart of the distinction between “force” and “violence” as such. A nonviolent mentality also counters the tendency of war to result in mutual resentments and multigenerational “cycles of violence” that frustrate efforts of constructive dialogue and reconciliation.
Non-violence is a difficult but noble standard which encompasses “loving our enemies even while resisting the evils they perpetrate” and “the ‘power’ that comes from accepting the suffering our enemies inflict upon us without seeking revenge.”
The redemptive love of Christ is the power that changes the human heart, that brings about my conversion-of-heart and your conversion-of-heart, the conversion-of-hearts in our communities, and the conversion of our adversaries’ hearts. Conversion is the ever-deepening foundation in human society of the real efficacy of non-violence, the measure of the emergence of that “power”—in society, among peoples, and nations—of nonviolent loving-of-enemies and suffering-affliction-without-hatred; a spiritual power that also extends in significant ways through solidarity with those who suffer unjustly. In such vicarious solidarity we find the fundamentally interrelated value of everyone’s effort—offered with love—to assist those involved in non-violent struggles, and in the efforts to build pathways of understanding and endeavor that can shape a new civil society of peace and gratitude, a new culture of life and encounter, a new civilization of love.
In the ensuing days when many in the United States will march, pray, fast, and recommit themselves to the need for our society to recognize, protect, and foster the dignity of pre-born human persons and their mothers, it is important to reflect on the tremendously delicate yet crucial and pervasive role of non-violence in meeting the great challenges such recognition entails. It calls for the protection of both human persons, the devotion of respect, affirmation, and care for both human persons, the unconditional love that meets the needs of both human persons, and the sustenance of the wider familial and local communion-of-persons that provides primary support for mothers and children after birth as well as before. There is much needed here in the way of prayer, mercy, solidarity, and active love, but there is no place whatsoever for violence, hatred, or any spirit of vengeance.
Non-violence, as understood and practiced by Gandhi, Martin Luther King, and those who came after them, doesn’t fit into the framework of ideological individualism, with its factions, its pretenses, it’s resistance to the integral human vocation. It is based on the recognition that human persons created in the image of God are created to love and to be loved, that persons are fulfilled only in communion. This challenges our self-assertiveness and self-indulgence, but if we are followers of Jesus we know that it’s true. We know that He calls us on this path, that His grace will give us the power to follow Him, and that all our struggles against one another and all the sufferings we impose upon one another are not as strong as the power of His saving love and mercy. Those who do not know Christ explicitly as Savior still draw on this power through the implicit bond with Him that exists through their service and recognition of His afflicted brothers and sisters.
And His redemptive love is necessary if we are to even begin to understand how non-violence is possible to our human weakness, or why we should continually return to it and take it up afresh in every circumstance of conflict, no matter how often we fall short. We must persevere in humble love and service. We must pray always and never lose heart.
On January 10, we remembered Christina Grimmie after seven years and seven months…
There are several “anniversaries” coming up this year for Christina. March 12, 2024 will be the 30th anniversary of her birth, and Team Grimmie frands all over the world are undoubtedly planning special celebrations.
This coming February 24 will mark ten years since NBC broadcast Christina’s legendary “blind audition” for Season 6 of The Voice. It ranks as one of the highest moments in the whole history of televised music competitions, and Christina’s splendid voice, engaging stage presence, and personal charisma would go on to make a powerful impact on television viewers, and carry her all the way to the finals.
I have written so much about this singular young woman, her strong faith, her beautiful soul, and the sense she had of her musical vocation and her relationship with her frands as a giving-of-herself, an unconditional love poured out “for the glory of Christ” and for the people He had “given to her.” And Christ gave her people in so many ways: first of all, in her family, friends, and collaborators, but also at concerts and meet-and-greets, or “on the other side” of social media interactions or her innovative YouTube creations in the early days of interactive audiovisual media.
Christina suffered from a particular vulnerability in following her path through the mainstream music industry, but she also had an “inspired audacity” in the way she reached out to people who struggled with disabilities, had problems with self-worth, or otherwise felt marginalized. When she encouraged them, it was with a sense of loving “authority” far beyond her years.
She would say, “Jesus loves you so much… as do I.” She said this on occasion, when the circumstances called for it, but she lived it every day with a grace-given gift of compassion and hospitality—she welcomed people into the sphere of her life, she risked taking the position of letting God’s love for others pour through her life, personality, and gestures.
In the end, perhaps we shouldn’t say that some awful man took her life on June 10, 2016. Christina Grimmie had already given her life to God and to others—her friends, her frands, and—finally—her enemies, with love.
This love is greater than death. Like the grain of wheat, it is buried deep in the earth. But it bears abundant fruit.
Better late than never: LAST YEAR’S TOP NINE posts on my Instagram. Mostly family: Four generations of family. My parents, although they have gone home to the Lord, sometimes seem very close, especially when all of us get together (their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren).
Family is a sign of the perseverance of love in history.
There is nothing about "ordinary time" in the Roman Calendar that implies that it means "unimportant, insignificant, boring time." It's not just "filler" dispersed "in between" the great liturgical seasons of Advent, Christmas, Lent, Easter, and all the feasts spread throughout the liturgical year. .
Above all, Christ the High Priest, who offered Himself in the sacrifice of the Cross for the salvation of the world, becomes accessible to us and invites our participation in His love through the Eucharist. Jesus has humbled Himself and poured Himself out inexhaustibly in His crucified love so as to "reach" every place and time and give Himself concretely to us in the Eucharist every day. What we celebrate in the liturgical seasons are the foundational events that shape our vocation as believers today. We can never become too familiar with the love of Christ: the God who takes our nature to manifest and glorify Divine Love in the world, and to seek us relentlessly, to heal us and draw us to Himself, to awaken, fulfill, and overflow the human heart—the heart that He created in each of us so that we might belong freely and totally to Him and His Father in the Spirit.
He who makes us, who sustains us in being in this very moment, has taken flesh to be with us and give Himself to us every day in a manner beyond all our hopes and imaginings. He desires so much to be received with love and gratitude by our freedom. He begs for our love from the Cross, in the Eucharist, in our brothers and sisters who gather with us in adoration, worship, and thanksgiving, and then in the world of human beings whom He wants (with burning ardor) to encounter Him through our witness. He wants to be seen and loved by the whole world through the way Christians love one another as well as by the words of our testimony to Him, which are a witness to the Infinite Love that He pours out on those who place their trust in Him.
There is nothing "commonplace" about this "ordinary time" in the liturgical year. We live by the Spirit, in Christ's Body, and are "sent" into the times and places that have been given to us, bringing the "news" that God our Father loves us so much that He wants to share His glory with us, make us His children, brothers and sisters of His Son—and brothers and sisters of one another—in His everlasting Kingdom.
The memory of our celebration of Christmas and Epiphany remains with us, continues to enlighten our path, and fills us with astonishment at the One who dwells with us and gives His life for us.
"In the incarnation of the Son of God we see forged the enduring and definitive synthesis which the human mind of itself could not even have imagined: the Eternal enters time, the Whole lies hidden in the part, God takes on a human face" (John Paul II, Fides et Ratio 12).
(1) The soldier baptizes his king, the servant his Lord, John his Savior; the waters of the Jordan tremble, a dove hovers as a sign of witness, and the voice of the Father is heard: This is my Son.
(2) Springs of water were made holy as Christ revealed his glory to the world. Draw water from the fountain of the Savior, for Christ our God has hallowed all creation.
(3) You burned away man’s guilt by fire and the Holy Spirit. We give praise to you, our God and Redeemer.
We continue to celebrate the Christmas Season in these days approaching Epiphany.
Christ is God’s light shining upon us in the darkness. He has revealed the love of God to the world, through the mystery of His birth, to the shepherds led to Him by angels, to the wise men by a star, to John the Baptist and those among the people of Israel who were making themselves ready for His coming, when He emerged from the waters of the Jordan—when they saw the Spirit descend upon Him in the form of a dove, and heard the Father’s voice.
Saint John the Evangelist was one of those who was led by the ministry of John the Baptist to follow Jesus. In these days we read from his first epistle in the liturgy.
“Beloved, we are God’s children now; what we shall be has not yet been revealed. We do know that when it is revealed we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is” (1 John 3:2).
Happy January 2 birthday to me.
Did I grow older? But I LOOK younger!😉 (Thanks to a haircut and beard trim from Eileen, I’ve traded in my “wild man” look for something more “civil” — heh heh, of course it’s only a disguise...😜)